I don't think my mom would. She has a lot of cognitive dissonance. Plus me hammering at some of their lunacy. đ
You just described perfectly, what I did with my parents. Little by little I kept hammering at the lunacy of the organization. My dad stepping down as an elder was the first step. My mom not pioneering was the second, and now, they don't go to the meetings.
Not sure how they really feel inside, but I know they wouldn't drink the kool aid.